Basically, all the bullies on the internet stand out with the one thing to say:"You're never good enough". Is it true? No way. Moreover, society expects us to fit in, to look a certain way and to do certain things. "You're not skinny enough" or "You just need to consume less calories, what's the problem"? There is a definition of beauty and if you don't fit in that frames then you will probably be bullied.
Since the internet started to enter our lives more and more, we started to depend on different opinions. To be more precise, there are a few reasons why. First and foremost, everyone is quite brave to show up and judge people on the Internet. Generally speaking, he would never say it straight to your face, he actually would rather comment on your Instagram photo. I can say without any the least hesitation that it's relatable to the majority of teenagers these days.
Secondly, you're forced to live openly. Just think about it for a second, social media is everywhere, in every sphere of your life. Human is a social creature, you can't really live without any interactions. However, it means to be "online" and to be "interactive" in the 21st century. The century when gadgets have overcome the stage of the "just technology". It's a lifestyle now. For this very reason, I can't but say that you're just forced to be somewhere on the internet.
Bullying has really become "a thing". You might not know this but bullying is actually the reason of children's' anxiety and depression. Internet bullying might grow into even suicidal thought and, unfortunately, suicide. Not surprisingly that if you're being constantly told to be "ugly, stupid, fat" than your self-esteem becomes nothing. You can't feel okay being just yourself.
Nevertheless, there is just one way out. Everyone, literally, everyone needs to accept people for who they are. Obviously, everyone is unique and different, that's the point. Unfortunately, bullies still exist.
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